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Arnold Ahlert is a MORON!

May. 15th, 2006 | 08:30 am

Its amazing how people actually BELIEVE everything they read....who is this guy anyway?

NOT DEAF ENOUGH - NEW YORK POST

by Arnold Ahlert

AT Gallaudet University, students and faculty have been protesting the selection of Jane K. Fernandes as president of the school - because she isn't deaf enough.

Gallaudet is one the nation's premier universities for deaf people - and Fernandes has been deaf her entire life. But apparently some deafness is "more equal than others" - and Fernandes didn't learn to "sign" until the age of 23. She preferred speaking - which, incredibly, is considered a liability.

One could expect such nonsense from students. But the faculty, much to its discredit, endorsed their mentality with a "no-confidence" vote.

It is bad enough that one must be deaf - regardless of other qualifications - to qualify for a job at a university that serves a deaf population. That one must also be a "certain kind" of deaf is absurd.

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Public Relations is the name of the game....

May. 11th, 2006 | 03:47 pm

After watching the final open forum with Dr. Jane Fernandes, I winced in pain as each person stood up and ripped into her. It was not what I wanted to see and Ms. Jonas put it perfectly, this whole thing “is such a travesty”.

I started to think about what it means to be deaf in the 21st century. LOL. I’m kidding, that’s not what I was planning to say but it is somewhat related. I will elaborate.

The Failure of Dr. Fernandes in mastering Public Relations is probably what got her into this situation in the first place. Never underestimate the power of the “buying public”. They can literally make you or break you (brands and products included). If you have enough people going around with big mouths to say that your product is crap, you better believe that everyone is going to think your product is crap. Regardless of how well you publicize it (take a lesson from Ford, the American made motor company that is losing millions each year)…

Jane should have pumped up her public relations machine full of steroids after the goalpost incident to avoid a fallout with the students. Did she honest to god think that the students would have conveniently forgotten this? NO WAY! While we may remember and talk about rumors for weeks and watch them wither away, we cannot forget when we feel we were wronged. We do not forget faces and we certainly do not forget names.

She should have started a feel-good campaign to win over faculty ESPECIALLY after I. King Jordan’s mistake (which he is only finally admitting now that it’s convenient?!) of appointing her without consulting with the afflicted. Instead, she made enemies not friends. She did not recognize the key players on the gallaudet team and aim to win them over. This probably would have prevented a lot of serious faculty dissent.

Now kiddies, here we are. 10 days into the protest and yet again another failure of public relations. If Jane was a PR mastermind or had hired one (like Clinton did *James Carville, where are you when we need you?*), she would not have ANY OF THESE PROBLEMS.

And, this, my friends is the main problem. Because as the Leader of Gallaudet, this is perhaps your most pivotal function…Public Relations. So, if you can’t prove that you can win over your very own people…HOW IN THE WORLD are you going to do your job effectively?

You can say this is all about her ineffective leadership and whatever else we can think of. But the bottom line is that where Jane Fernandes Failed miserably…

PUBLIC RELATIONS.

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I have 3 things to say....

May. 10th, 2006 | 02:37 pm

1. I never asked anyone to post my post on anyones blog. However, much to my amusement, it was. I AM DISGUSTED THAT SOME PEOPLE HAVE TAKEN THEIR ACTIONS TOO FAR. I am sure that the kaftan's daughter is absolutely gorgeous. that is offensive and stupid to even mention anything.

2. I really like Jane Fernandes and i really LOVE LOVE her husband Jim Fernandes. It is a shame that this all had to happen. But, HOW could this have been prevented? I wonder....

and

3. Anthony Mowl, don't you remember i told you several weeks ago that if you are planning to oppose a certain appointment that you should start making PLANS for that? You opted out of my "obviously fabulous advice" and as a result the media has depicted this protest as nothing short of a personal vendetta/sham. I'm not going to say "i told you so" (because i know i am already saying it anyway) and i cannot blame you for being naive enough to believe that the system will work.

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Open Letter to CM Baldwin, Former Interim Chair

May. 9th, 2006 | 08:04 pm

Celia May-

Why do you leave us so?

I hope one day, you speak about what was done to you.

I hope one day you can tell us what you really thought.

I hope that you still see a gliimmer of hope and a beacon of light at the end of this exhausting tunnel we crawl.

I wished you could have been strong.

Are you saying this was not worth the fight?

I want to know, Celia May, Who was harrassing you?

sigh........

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Chris and Allison Kaftan Shoot eachother in the foot

May. 9th, 2006 | 03:01 pm

This post is in response to: http://www.deafdc.com/blog/category/chris-and-allison-kaftan/

Exposing the truth on both sides? Hardly. I’m actually quite disappointed because I find that once in a while Allison’s writings are amusing and somewhat logical. As for CK (whom I blogged about a few months back), he leaves much to be desired.

You say you support the FSSA and then you go on to demoralize the movement by making statements like “tent city is a farce”, “gallaudet community shoots itself in the foot”, “emotionally violent protest”.

Someone couldn’t go to their internship, Kendall students’ normal routines were disrupted, and you struggled to get your sick daughter off campus. I can see these being the normal casualties of a protest. You write it as if IT’S SO OUT OF THE ORDINARY and “EMOTIONALLY VIOLENT”…please.

You said people feared for their safety…FROM WHAT? Students playing video games and chess? And if you claim that they aren’t doing much, then how can you claim that they are wreaking so much havoc?

Students went to Jane K. Fernandes’s HOUSE?! Can someone tell me where she lives because I certainly don’t know and I doubt any of the protesters do either. I am very skeptical about this sketchy piece of information that you BOLDLY CLAIM.

You said that Ridor attacked Jane Norman, Ben Lewis, and some others. WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE THIS IS SO OUT OF THE ORDINARY and ONLY APPLICABLE TO THE PROTEST???

For the record, RIDOR has attacked EVERYONE and THEIR MOTHER at one point or another. This is hardly a cause for mention. (Btw- if you are interested in everyone Ridor has talked about *which is a boatload of TITANIC proportions, check it out at www.ridorlive.com*)

Elisa Abenchuchan (www.xanga.com/elisa_abenchuchan) took pictures of pro-fernandes supporters. This is a bad thing? *I’m totally perplexed here*

I find the grad student-freshman incident that you claimed to have witnessed ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS. For this reason…Doesn’t everyone want more supporters on their side? Jane Norman also did this for the GFA. EVERYONE WANTS MORE SUPPORTERS, I mean again…casualty of protesting.

Of course everyone is getting pressure…this is a divisive issue. OF COURSE the administration is pressuring fac and staff, just like students are pressuring students and so on and so forth. I don’t see what the big point here is…..(other than its boo-hoo sob sob “hurting the deaf community”)

Deaf-Centered does NOT NOT mean born DEAF of DEAF. I really wish that someone would explain this to people who are obviously disillusioned.

I personally do not get how the “Gallaudet For All” people are any different than the people who are protesting (other than being on opposite sides of the same coin).

Have you seen the diverse mix of people in tent city? If that isn’t from “all walks of life” then I don’t know what is. It’s nice to see that Gallaudet is “for all”… but lets be honest here, isn’t that how it’s always been?

When I was a student, there were people from ALL WALKS of LIFE there. I mean come on, this is hardly a revolution.

Your Tent City Claims….

I love tent city. I would rather live there than Sioux Falls, SD to be honest with you.

Okay, I’m totally lying. The thought of camping out is abhorrent to me (ask anyone). Along with the sounds of drive-by shootings that happen a mere 100 yards away, I’d not want to subject myself to that. However, the students are willing. It’s crazy and of course someone’s going to draw a comic about it. That doesn’t mean it’s a circus.

You claim that Tent City is a farce.

If Tent City is a Farce then you two are HYPOCRITES (you support the FSSA? *scoff!*). You went out to Tent City on a rainy day and made your case out of that?

The Irony of the FSSA. This is actually one of the few, if the only point I agree with. You are right. Slemo Warigon PREDICTED this would happen a few days before the announcement on Gally-net.

You claim the BOT can’t do anything….

DO I LOOK LIKE I WAS BORN YESTERDAY?!?! Does anyone believe this crap? I MEAN….this is America. Anything is POSSIBLE and the last time I checked the Board has the ultimate authority to make decisions…Even complicated and unprecedented decisions. They are ULTIMATELY responsible for the university. When the Board fails, Gallaudet fails. PERIOD.

Julie Feldman replied that you were doing a service to the community.

I DISAGREE. It’s a disservice to make a mockery of the very cause you support. You can point out these things have happened, but you also have to point out that there is always a price to pay for social justice. ALWAYS.

I HOWEVER AGREE with Julie that things are evolving naturally. That bothers me just a tad because I believe in planning. (see next post for my comments)

Now, I’m actually tired of all the protest bashing at DeafDC.Com. Especially the Kerry-esque ramblings of Adam Stone (who I probably would like if I ever met him in person)…

Speaking of DeafDC.com, they definitely need to upgrade those shitty ’95 servers they are running on because the site is impossible to load and sometimes it doesn't at all. I am thankful once in a while that they are preventing me from being exposed to some irrational irrhetoric. But still… I’m a drama addict. I want my fix when i want it, i want it to load when i want it to. argh.

One last thing…Allison, are you trying to look sexy in that picture? *ahem* *cough*

Editors Note: Now- this was not a personal attack on either Allison or CK. I am only attacking the logic behind their post. I do actually like CK, though I don’t really know Allison at all.

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today is a good day...

Mar. 16th, 2006 | 01:03 pm

Women abound...Jessica simpson snubs the National Republican party when bush's rating is at 37% approval. claiming that its because the organization she is lobbying for is nonpartisan. hmmm. is it just me or has Nick Lachey gotten FUGLY since they broke up (ahem) i'm sorry i mean divorced. lol. ok, now onto more exciting news
I love this! Will the real Mr. and Mrs. Smith please stand up?

Other than that, nothing really exciting happening.

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MISS DEAF TEXAS is DEAD!

Mar. 13th, 2006 | 08:09 pm

THIS IS SCARY - Miss Deaf Texas was Hit by a train TODAY! Apparently she was trying to cross the train tracks even though it wasn't a train crossing...I wonder why so many deaf people i know or have heard of died by train. Its like some kind of weird phenomenon, i would think you could feel the tracks trembling from a good 100 feet and if you are quick enough you should be able to cross in time before the train hits you. Regardless, this is a sad day for deaf america and deaf texans especially. My thoughts are with you all....

Thank you Jason Lamberton for reminding me about the MBTI, we use it alot in corporate america to make teams copacetic. Jason found a website where you can take the test and figure out your personality type...
I suppose that you couldn't be 100% the same personality all the time, so it would make sense that you alternate between personalities and roles...I picked the top 3 matches for me, These seem pretty accurate, read below:



Your #1 Match: ENTP




The Visionary

You are charming, outgoing, friendly. You make a good first impression.
You possess good negotiating skills and can convince anyone of anything.
Happy to be the center of attention, you love to tell stories and show off.
You're very clever, but not disciplined enough to do well in structured environments.

You would make a great entrpreneur, marketing executive, or actor.


Your #2 Match: ESTP




The Doer

You are adventurous and risk taking. You act first, think second.
You love being the center of attention. Chances are you were the class clown.
Competitive, charming, and charasmatic - you have your own code of honor.
You live a flexible life, bouncing between a series of activies that interest you.

You would make a great salesperson, marketing director, or entrepreneur.


Your #3 Match: INTP




The Thinker

You are analytical and logical - and on a quest to learn everything you can.
Smart and complex, you always love a new intellectual challenge.
Your biggest pet peeve is people who slow you down with trivial chit chat.
A quiet maverick, you tend to ignore rules and authority whenever you feel like it.

You would make an excellent mathematician, programmer, or professor.


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elated

Mar. 13th, 2006 | 04:52 pm

the day is almost over and i am finally checking LJ. I am elated for some strange reason, i guess it is being towards the end of the day.

DONT YOU HATE MISSING PEOPLE?! I JUST HATE HATE HATE IT. Like when friends move away, get new jobs, new responsibilities, or they become completely inaccessible somehow someway? it totally sucks. Maybe i have a hard time accepting change? I think i need to read that book "Who Moved My Cheese"...yeah that sounds good.

There isn't really much happening here, i'm going to start my dance aerobics in front of my TV tonight after i finish making taco salad for dinner. I got mexican jalapeno chips that i am looking forward to mixing in these babies! i can just TASTE it now and its driving me wild.

I completed ONE thing on my 5 Thing TO DO list today, don't i feel productive?! :)

I also hate the fact that theres no bachelor on tonite, i miss watching that show. I bought the American Idol seasons 1-4 DVD and it TOTALLY SUCKS! the editing is HORRIBLE and so is the sound (and this is not because i am deaf, trust me, the sound is awful)... i am actually going to take it back to walmart and demand a refund.

Today on the ipod, i almost cried. I love Journey's FAITHFULLY...

and thought i'd share the lyrics below:

Highway run into the midnight sun
Wheels go round and round
You're on my mind
Restless hearts sleep alone tonight
Sending all my love along the wire
They say that the road
ain't no place to start a family
Right down the line it's been you and me
And loving a music man
ain't always what it's supposed to be

Girl
you stand by me
I'm forever yours
faithfully
Circus life under the big top world
We all need the clowns to make us laugh
Through space and time
Always another show
Wodering where I am lost without you
And being a part ain't easy on this love affair
Two strangers learn to fall in love again
I get the joy of rediscovering you

Oh girl
you stand by me
I'm forever yours
faithfully
Oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
oh oh oh oh oh oh
faithfully
I'm still yours
I'm forever yours
Ever yours
faithfully

*SOBS!*

I need celebrity gossip. *LOOOKING AROUND ENDLESSLY*

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Through the snowstorm

Mar. 12th, 2006 | 09:02 pm

We were in willmar, minn last weekend at the 'rents lakehouse which was serene (as serene as it can be with my mother haha!) and we got a chance to catch up on sleep and just generally vacationing which is ALWAYS WELCOME! :)

There are 28k people who live in willmar and yet their grocery store is 3 times as big as the hyvee here in sioux falls, and 10 times better! some things just really piss me off. the liquor store up there even carries beer from far away countries. amazing.

Me and ma got into a heated debate about abortion. we're both prochoice and mom thinks that its time for me to change my party affiliation (i'm a republican). she thinks that bush has single-handedly created the worst possible prochoice battle in history. She truly believes that because of south dakota, roe v. wade will be overruled. she asks when i am moving out. soon enough, i tell her, soon enough.

CAN YOU IMAGINE the government forcing you to endure a full pregnancy term? That seems so...none of the government's damn business.
why do we allow fundamentalists to practice their religion in the legislature? even governer mike rounds said that his catholic faith had some influence. this is such a crock. i'm not against any religion but just remember that what you believe cannot be forced upon everyone else.

We had a severe winter advisory and drove back home through freezing rain, snow, and severe winds. No sliding off the road and we were only stuck behind what appeared to be a drunk/methed up driver only once. for a good 25-30minutes. ugh. but we made it and now we're home.

oh oh when we were at willmar, i was watching VH1's "Driven" on Kanye West, WOW. i think i have a more profound respect for him than i did before. i found him to be quite egotistical at the grammy awards but now that i've seen the background on what happened, i'm pretty impressed at how determined he was to make it as a rapper. one of the main things i always liked about him....HIS LYRICS ROCK! so i'm posting "Jesus Walks" here for y'all...

Jesus Walks

{Intro}

I need to recruit all the soldiers
All of God's soldiers
We at war
We at war with society, racism, terroism and most of all we at war with ourselves
(Jesus Walks)
God show me the way because the Devil try to break me down
(Jesus Walks with me with me with me with me) [Fades]

{Verse 1}

You know what the Midwest is?
Young & Restless
Where restless Niggas might snatch your necklace
And next these Niggas might jack your Lexus
Somebody tell these Niggas who Kanye West is
I walk through the valley of chi where death is
Top floor of the view alone will leave you breathless
*Gasping for air*
Try to catch it
*Gasping for air*
It's kinda hard
Gettin' choked by detectives yeah yeah now check the method
They be asking us questions, harass and arrest us
Saying "we eat pieces of shit like you for breakfast."
Huh? Yall eat pieces of shit what's the basis?
We ain't goin' nowhere but got suits and cases
A trunk full of coke rental car from Avis
My momma used to say only Jesus can save us
Well momma I know I act a fool
But I'll be gone till November I got packs to move I Hope

{Chorus}

(Jesus Walks)
God show me the way because the Devil try to break me down
(Jesus Walks with me)
The only thing that I pray is that my feet don't fail me now
(Jesus Walks)
And I don't think there’s nothing I can do to right my wrongs
(Jesus Walks with me)
I wanna talk to God but I'm afraid cause we ain't spoke in so long

(Jesus Walks)
God show me the way because the Devil try to break me down
(Jesus Walks with me)
The only thing that I pray is that my feet don't fail me now
(Jesus Walks)
And I don't think there’s nothing I can do now to right my wrongs
(Jesus Walks)
I wanna to talk to God but I'm afraid cause we ain't spoke in so long
(Jesus Walks with me with me with me) [Fades]

{Verse 2}

Ya, to the hustlers, killers, murderers, drug dealers even the strippers
(Jesus walks with them)
To the victims of welfare feel we living in hell here, hell yea
(Jesus walks with them)
Now hear Ye hear Ye wanna see Thee more clearly
I know He hear me when my feet get weary
Cause we’re the almost nearly extinct
We rappers are role models we rap we don't think
I ain't here to argue about his facial features
Or here to convert atheists into believers
I'm just tryin to say the way school need teachers
The way Kathy Lee needed Regis that's the way I need Jesus
So here go my single dawg radio needs this
They said you can rap about anything except for Jesus
That means guns, sex, lies, video tape
But if I talk about God my record won't get played huh
Well if this take away my from spins
Which will probably take away from my ends
Then I hope it take away from sins
And bring the day that I’m dreamin about
Next time I'm in the club everybody screamin out

{Chorus 2}

(Jesus Walks)
God show me the way because the devil try to break me down
(Jesus Walks with me)
The only thing that I pray is that my feet don't fail me now
(Jesus Walks)
And I don’t think there’s nothing I can do to right my wrongs
(Jesus Walks with me with me with me with me) [Fades]
I wanna talk to God but I’m afraid cause we ain’t spoke in so long .....

*Nice eh??*

i'm feeling kinda melancholy today. its been a strange few days....

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LIPS

Mar. 10th, 2006 | 05:31 pm

Most of y'all know i play a lil poker here and there... i joined a womens league locally in sioux falls which ran for 8 weeks, grand prize was an all expense paid trip to vegas to play in the LIPS (Ladies International Poker Series) tourney. <http://www.lipstour.com>
For 8 weeks I went and got buzzed on Boulevard and had fun with the locals, even the woman who owned the bar was in our league (about 30 of us altogether), bud light sponsored it so every week ther were prizes for 1st place (2 games a night)...it was based on a points system. 500 points gets you into the final tournament and most of 'em gals had over 500, alot of them over 1k! i had juts 500 points ON THE NOSE. i went in sick and high on benadryl and comtrex (i was very sick all week) and basically i decided that iwas going to win this thing before it even started.

AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am going to vegas, may 18-21st. The tournament is on the 20th, i'm pretty sure it will be held at binions horseshoe but the location hasn't been announced yet (i wonder why)....The winner will receive an entry into the Ladies WSOP (1k buy in) and 5 seats on the LIPS TOUR (various locations across the US '06-'07.

Naturally, i was shocked but not really all that shocked because i played a pretty flawless game (other than the bad beat i took when my friend JD got her flush on the river against my AceKing top pair *should i have put her all in on the flop? should she have folded her a7 spades?*)
Regardless, I beat her ass on the river which was satisfying to say the least. if you want to know heres how it played out...YES VERY DRAMATIC

Rayni: 1010 Big Blind
JD: KQ off Small Blind
JD: Calls
Rayni: All In
JD: mulls over it for a good three minutes...CALLS!
Flop: K9K
Rayni: FUCK!
JD: Smiling Hard
Turn: 2
Rayni: Settles into seat for new battle (still had about 50k in chips left *was chipleader*)
JD:Smiling hard once again
Turn: 10
Rayni: OH MY GOD! FULL HOUSE!
JD: what!?!?!? *the shocking look on her face was...shall i say...PRICELESS?* (she will HATE me for saying this)
Rayni: THIS CANT BE!
JD: CANT BE!
Dealer: YES.
Leage Captain, Lucky: Rayni Won. Congratulations.
JD and Rayni Hug.
JD gets badass Budweiser Poker Table Top (heavy ass thing worth about $200)

Owner: YOu gotta fill out your personal info i need it for the bookings.
Rayni: shocked, okok fills out gives owner. "See you next week, new league starts"

The new league winner gets a day spa, we'll see if i can snag that.

Regardless... what a week.

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